I noticed WAYBACK that most men who show an interest will break themselves to get with me, as long as I never let them touch me. regardless of how much time and energy I put into my appearance. only a small percentage in the interested parties category will stop trying, until I tell them to give up, or I give it up. maybe it's because I gravitate toward competitive people. If I have sex with a man I associate with, I will probably be devalued in his eyes. It's not that there's something wrong with them,or they have a madonna complex, or even that they're addicted to the chase. it's that they got what they wanted. once they got it, check please. makes sense to me. when I get what I want, I'm done negotiating. much like you don't keep looking for your keys after you find them. This understanding has shaped my sexual choices., my website, ppcrmg,