Why is it that so many girls/women/ladies seem to believe that the wiccan tradition holds the female aspect in a higher esteem or even dominant?

My point in essence, if Iam not mistaken, is that between the triple goddess/moon (female aspect) and the horned god/sun (male aspect) they are supposed to represent an equilibrium, a harmonious balance in the forces in the universe.

Therefore if one is in higher esteem, value or even dominant over the other, where is the balance? It would be lost, would it not.

Please consider this, and then consider why exactly you individually feel a need to either lift up, claim a reason to dominate or even put down yourselves or others - after all isnt it meant to be about developing an empathy and love with the higher states of being or beings if you prefer down hear on earth?