as all are telling you, you cannot make anyone do anything they do not want to do. I think the world would be an awful place if it were possible! Imagine some unsavory person, sees an stunning looking person- and wants them- usually they would not be interested- but they use a spell, and hey presto- the stunner is in love with some mad person...it would be a disaster!
I may be able to help you though- but i'd need to know more...you can email me at:
my_s_tery23@hotmail.com

peace be,

suzie